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A private gift planner for couples

Surprise each other.Without giving the same gift.

WRAPT is a private gift planner for couples. You each keep a list of gift ideas for the other, and WRAPT quietly keeps the two lists from colliding, so you don’t both turn up with the same present.

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Alejandra never sees your ideas.

A look inside WRAPT · sample ideas

Christmas 2026Two private lists

Both picked the musical

WRAPT noticed and quietly kept the lists apart. Nobody was told.

  • Lion King musical tickets
  • Pottery workshop
  • Hiking boots
  • Tickets for The Lion King

How it works

Two lists, kept apart.

  1. Sign up and connect

    Create your account and send Alejandra a code. Start alone if you like: Alejandra can join later.

  2. Keep your own private list

    Save gift ideas as they come to you, and the things Alejandra mentions in passing. Only you see your list.

    Alejandra keeps one too. If you both pick the same gift, WRAPT notices.

  3. Let WRAPT ask

    Short of clues? Now and then WRAPT asks Alejandra a small question for you, so you don’t have to.

    First, how the two lists stay apart.

When you both pick the same thing

Same idea on both lists?WRAPT keeps them apart, quietly.

A look inside WRAPT · sample ideas

Only Markus sees this

Strong idea

Lion King musical tickets
Pottery workshop

Considering

A beautiful cookbook
Only Alejandra sees this

Planning to buy

Espresso grinder

Strong idea

Hiking boots
Tickets for The Lion King
  1. Markus keeps a private list for Alejandra.
  2. Alejandra keeps one for Markus.
  3. You both pick the Lion King musical.
  4. WRAPT notices, and quietly keeps the lists from colliding.
  5. Neither of you is told.

How does it know?

It compares what you each mean, not the words you used. “Lion King musical tickets” and “Tickets for The Lion King” count as the same gift.

Who sees what?

Markus never sees Alejandra’s list, and Alejandra never sees Markus’s. Nothing tells either of you it happened.

The second thing WRAPT does

Ideas for Alejandra,from small questions.

Now and then WRAPT asks Alejandra a small question: a size, a favorite, sunrise or sunset. When there is enough to go on, ask for ideas and WRAPT suggests three. You see the ideas, never the answers.

WRAPT · now

What size are you in boots?

Tap to answer · 10 seconds

This is all Alejandra sees. A small question. No gift, no list, nothing about Markus.

Ideas for Alejandra

Three ideas drawn from what Alejandra has answered and chosen to share. You see the ideas, never the answers.

  • A trailing plant for the window
  • A sunrise hike, with breakfast
  • A tapas cooking class

Alejandra never sees your ideas.

About those questions

Some of these matter.Some are noise.

Asking Alejandra’s boot size in November is its own spoiler. So WRAPT asks for you, and mixes the real questions with ones that mean nothing.

The honest bit

Some of the questions Alejandra gets come from an idea on your list. Some are about nothing at all. That is on purpose: if every question came from your list, the questions themselves would give you away. The noise is what keeps Christmas a surprise.

We would rather tell you that than have you work it out.

Example questions

  • What size are you in boots?From an idea
  • Sunrise or sunset person?About nothing
  • Do you still want that plant?From an idea

Labels shown here for you. Alejandra never sees which kind a question is.

Who WRAPT is for

Why not just share a wishlist?

Plenty of couples share a wishlist, and it works: you write down what you want, the other buys it, nobody is surprised. WRAPT is for couples who love surprising each other, and so now and then give the same thing.

A wishlist fixes the duplicate by removing the surprise. WRAPT keeps the surprise.